Welcome Gorgeous,

Relationships are not a test that you either pass or fail. It is an ongoing process of learning about each other so that both parties can feel satisfied and emotionally connected every day. The differences between a regular relationship (together every day) and FIFO relationship (one works away from home) is FIFO relationship experience unique challenges because of the distance. The physical distance can make it that little bit harder at times coursing problems that can prevent you from really feeling happy and is keeping those beautiful in love feeling alive daily.

So with this in mind, I have put together theses questions specially designed for couples whose relationship is separated by work, to see how happy and healthy your relationship is.

You could use this as a conversation starter to further your connection with each other.

This questionnaire is designed to give you a quick look at the health of your relationship. The key to answering these questions is to go with your first answer, what feels Right for you Right Now, don’t overthink it.

Once you know where you are in your relationship, then you can begin to work on those areas you want to improve.

I hope you find these questions revealing and remember I’m here, so feel free to give me a call or email me if you like to know more. I’d love to help you.

Keep Smiling
Pamela Crane 

How Happy is your relationship

Select the answer for how you are feeling Right Now in your relationship.


My partner and I share our feelings about important things.
Do my partner, and I think more in terms of “we” and “us,” rather than “you” and “I”.
I frequently touch, hug and kiss my partner affectionately.
I feel my partner listens respectfully, even when we disagree.
My partner makes me a better person, and do I do the same for them?
Spirituality is an essential part of our relationship.
I feel safe showing my real emotions to my partner.
When disagreements arise, do my partner, and I communicate respectfully and without contempt or negativity?
I feel my partner is open and honest with me emotionally.
My partner hears me but doesn’t really listen to me.
Sometimes I must hide my true feelings and emotions.
My partner allows me to have my own opinions.
My partner and I have regularly date nights.
I feel like we have lost the spark in our relationship.
I sometimes fear my partner is with me only because it’s convenient and practical (eg. money, home, comfort, someone to look after children, etc.)
I can tell my partner enjoys spending time with me.
I feel my partner regularly judges me and compares me to others.
I know how my partner best receives love and feel romance.
My partner knows how I best receive love and feel romance.
I feel understood and appreciated.
When we are apart, I often think lovingly of my partner.
My partner and I enjoy sensual activities (these are non-sexual – like bath, massage, listening to music or watching a sunsets)
My partner and I are still very physically affectionate towards each other.
My partner and I have intimate and stimulating conversations with each other.
My partner and I trust each other in everything.
Can I identify my emotions and express them to my partner?
My partner and I have meaningful sex.
I have some secrets I would rather not share with my partner.
We spend a lot of quality time together.
Even when my partner is hard to deal with, I remain committed to our relationship.

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