Are You in a FIFO Relationship and Finding Money Talks Tricky (or Downright Tense)?
Discover gentle tools to rebuild trust, feel included, and talk about finances without the fights.
Love & Money
Building Security Together in FIFO Life
What if money conversations brought you closer instead of pulling you apart?
Imagine talking about money without fights or guilt.
Feeling respected, included, and safe — no matter who earns more.
Rebuilding trust and connection, one small step at a time.
No financial jargon. No judgment. Just simple, heart-led tools to bring you closer.
This workbook is designed to support your emotional connection and conversations about money in a FIFO relationship. It is not financial or legal advice. For personal finance or investment decisions, please seek advice from a qualified financial planner or professional.
Why Money Feels So Hard in FIFO Life
Money isn’t just numbers on a page… especially in FIFO relationships.
It’s about safety, trust, respect, and feeling included.
But here’s the reality so many FIFO couples quietly face:
One partner handles all the finances while the other feels left out
Money conversations spark tension, shutdowns, or silence
Small purchases come with guilt, resentment, or judgment
Unequal incomes create invisible power struggles
Past mistakes or secrets have left cracks in trust
Even when the income looks “good on paper”… the emotional side of money can feel messy, unequal, or unsafe.
Imagine If…
You and your partner could talk about money without fear of starting a fight.
You both felt included, respected, and safe — no matter who earns more.
Small spending choices no longer sparked feelings of guilt or resentment.
You had simple scripts and gentle prompts to guide calmer conversations.
Trust could be rebuilt, even if it’s been broken before.
That’s exactly what this workbook is here to help you create.
What You’ll Find Inside
The Love & Money Workbook is your safe, guided space to talk about money with love, not tension.
Inside, you’ll find:
The Money Minefield
Uncover why finances can trigger fear, guilt, or silence in FIFO life so you finally understand what’s really happening underneath the arguments.
Two Stories, One Future
Explore how your different money upbringings shape the way you both spend, save, and talk about finances — and find common ground.
Money Chats That Connect
Simple conversation starters and scripts to help you talk about money without fights or shutdowns.
The Unspoken Rules of Spending
Bring hidden “rules” and silent resentments to light so you can stop the guilt trips and confusion.
Rebuilding Trust
Gentle steps for healing after secrecy, mistakes, or past hurts so you can feel safe again.
When Money Feels Uneven
Ways to navigate income differences without power struggles or resentment.
Connection Before Control
Shift from fear and control into teamwork and shared security, so money strengthens your bond instead of dividing you.
Each Chapter Includes:
Reflections, Conversation Starters, and Mini-Missions (your Love Quests) to help you take small, loving steps… whether you read solo or share together.
Grab your copy of the Love & Money Workbook today for just $9 AUD.
A small step that could make a big difference in how safe and connected you feel with your partner.
Made for FIFO life… short, doable, and gentle enough to start anywhere.
No financial jargon. No judgment. Just simple, heart-led tools to bring you closer.
Please note: this workbook helps you explore feelings, communication and trust around money. It’s not professional financial advice. For budgeting, investment or tax decisions, we recommend talking with a qualified financial adviser.
Who This Workbook Is For
This is for FIFO couples who want to stop avoiding money conversations and start feeling like a team again.
It’s especially for:
The Home Partner who feels anxious, left out, or unsure about finances
The FIFO Partner who feels pressure to provide but is misunderstood
Couples who want to rebuild trust, ease tension, and feel more connected
If you’ve ever whispered to yourself, “I just want us to be on the same page without fighting”… this workbook is for you.
You don’t need to have the perfect answers. You just need a safe place to start.
A Personal Note from Pamela
Hi beautiful,
I live this life too… as a FIFO wife for over 18 years, mum of three, and now as a relationship coach for couples like yours. I know what it feels like to lie awake doing mental maths with the groceries, bills, etc.. wondering if you and your partner are truly aligned.
I know the ache when money becomes a wall instead of a bridge.
That’s why I created this workbook. Not to “fix” you, but to give you a safe way to talk about money — without blame, without fear, and with plenty of love.
You don’t have to read it all in one go. You don’t have to get it perfect. You just have to start somewhere. And every tiny step forward — even one sticky note, one page, one question… counts.
With heart,
Pamela x
Founder of FIFO Love
Love & Money
Building Security Together in FIFO Life
Ready to Begin Your Love & Money Journey?
Grab your copy of the Love & Money Workbook today for just $9 AUD.
No financial jargon. No judgment. Just simple, heart-led tools to bring you closer.
💌 P.S. Think of this workbook as your Love Quest, not homework. Pop a note in your partner’s bag, send a cheeky “this page made me think of us” text, or read a reflection during a call. These little actions ripple out into big change.
This workbook is designed to support your emotional connection and conversations about money in a FIFO relationship. It is not financial or legal advice. For personal finance or investment decisions, please seek advice from a qualified financial planner or professional.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if my partner isn’t interested in reading it with me?
That’s okay. Many people start this workbook on their own. You’ll still find reflections, questions, and little Love Quests that can gently shift things for you. Often, when one partner starts making small changes, the other becomes curious and joins in later.
Do I need to be “good with money” to use this?
Not at all. This isn’t about numbers or budgets… it’s about feelings, conversations, and connection. There’s no financial jargon here, just heart-led prompts and simple tools you can use straight away.
Is this workbook financial advice?
No — this workbook isn’t about numbers, budgets, or tax advice. It’s about the feelings, trust, and conversations that come up around money in FIFO life. If you need help with things like investments, budgeting, or legal advice, it’s best to chat with a qualified financial adviser or planner.
Will this take a lot of time?
Nope. You can dip in and out, do a page with a cuppa, or turn one question into a FIFO-style date night chat. Small steps are powerful… and this workbook is designed to fit around your busy FIFO life.
What if things have gone really wrong with money in the past?
Then you’re in the right place. There are gentle chapters on rebuilding trust and moving forward, even if mistakes or secrets have caused pain. You don’t have to fix everything at once… this workbook helps you take it one safe step at a time.
Grab your copy of the Love & Money Workbook today for just $9 AUD.
A small step that could make a big difference in how safe and connected you feel with your partner.
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